29 HIGH EQ ACTIONS THAT HELP AVOID A LOT OF TROUBLES IN LIFE
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1. Don't use the phone while the other person is talking.
2. Inviting others to eat is equivalent to sharing, the person invited to eat will forget, and do not feel grateful, unless you invite them to eat a luxurious banquet full of exotic foods.
The way to make others accept and remember your love is to give gifts. The presence of gifts will remind them of your heart and love for them.
3. If two people are in a car, and the other person is single, don't sit in the back seat, because then someone will think you consider them a driver. But if the other person has a lover or comes with you, know the meaning of sitting in the back seat.
4. When communicating, chatting with people, try to limit the use of voice messages.
5. Don't get involved with your lover's best friend. If she doesn't like you, you might break up. If that girl likes you, then you two will definitely break up.
6. When living better than others, talk in a half-good-half-bad manner to strike a balance, for example, buying a new house but having to take out a loan, traveling abroad but encountering a fake guide.
7. When visiting someone else's house, if the host doesn't talk much, even reminds you to drink water or tells you to sit and watch TV, know what to leave, because only when you don't know what else to say, people will notice.
8. "For another day" is equivalent to "Forget it".
9. Before giving B A's contact number, it's best to ask A if they agree. Because sometimes, A doesn't want to be bothered by B. Out of courtesy, consult A before disclosing their personal information.
10. Buy some fruit or snacks from time to time to share with roommates or coworkers. It's not worth a lot of money, but doing so will help you gain people's sympathy.
11. When talking, if the other party only answers "Um", "Ah", then don't get immersed in your story anymore, because they don't want to listen to you continue, they are just afraid to interrupt you.
12. Interrupting others is very impolite. But if you're frequently interrupted, think about whether you're talking too much.
13. People who rarely get angry often hold many strong cards. The one who opens up to be angry may not have any valuable cards left. Anger is often a reaction when people are at a dead end, with no way out.
14. "Yes", "Ah", "Yeah" are the three most superficial answers. Either answer kindly, or reply "Yes”, rather than a short reply like that.
15. Don't try to change yourself to follow others, blend in with the crowd to find a sense of security. You want to study, but you force yourself to play games just to "get along" with everyone, then at the end of the term low scores can't be blamed on anyone. Do you think it's funny when people laugh and say that? Maybe they'll get a job through family connections, but how is an average person like you going to get a job with an uncharacteristic resume? Going to follow everyone's wishes, losing yourself for the rest of your life?
16. Don't always bother others, for example, storm like, share a bunch of articles every day, or support PR sales and bargaining for a few days. In adult society, the little troubles that you think are common sense are the biggest factors that damage social relationships.
17. Consider making money your most important thing before the age of 30. Stop thinking useless things, less complaining, whining. Only when the money is in your hand will you find this world easier to live in. In the most ideal period to strive, instead of complaining to friends all day that you want a lover, focus on working and making money.
18. Being obedient, honest is very useful when you are still in school, it will help you to be loved by teachers and friends. But when you step into society, there will be people who don't care if you are good to them or not, only care if you are beneficial to them or not, so the more obedient and honest you are, the more people will boss you around.
19. If you haven't experienced it, don't rush to deny others. Because you can't be sure when you face the same thing, you'll do better than them.
20. Sometimes, just texting without emojis or stickers will make the other person misunderstood. The same sentence, a paragraph, each person will have a different interpretation.
21. Before going on a date, prepare a small gift like a hairpin or a hair band. When you meet your partner, give it to them, and you'll see her eyes sparkle.
22. For some people, your kindness and tolerance is a manifestation of a person who is easy to bully. With them, the more you compromise, the more people dominate.
23. If a lively, outgoing, talkative person suddenly becomes quiet, be careful, they may have been through pain you cannot imagine.
24. If you ask the other person what to eat, he or she replies "whatever", it means that they want to have the right to decide, you just need to choose the dish and ask them if they like it or not.
25. When you buy small things for others like breakfast, drinks or tea, if they ask for an account number to transfer money, feel free to tell them the price and take it, don't think you are petty. You don't take money, it makes people awkward. No one lacks those few pennies, nor does anyone want to be indebted to others for a few coins.
26. If a friend you haven't seen in a while suddenly texts you, there's a good chance that person has a favor to ask. Before the other party clearly states what he wants to ask, do not rush to answer.
27. If you come to a friend's house but they have guests, take the initiative to be the person serving tea and pouring water, one is to save face for your friend, the other is to increase the friendship between the two of you.
28. Don't talk about your boss in the restroom, you never know who's inside the closed cubicle.
29. When traveling in large numbers, pay attention to the last person, if they stop to tie their shoelaces or something, wait patiently for them. Small, easy things like this will invisibly create a good impression of yourself in the hearts of others.
(From Facebook/Entrepreneur Mindset)
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